Srah-srahan

Srah-srahan or Peningsetan

In midodareni ceremony, can be done Srah-srahan or peningsetan. (In the old days, before the night is done peningsetan midodareni). The parents and family of the prospective groom give some stuff to the parents of the prospective bride.

Peningsetan of said thinner, meaning that bind tightly, in this case the commitment to be a marriage between the two parties and the sons and daughters of the parents of the bride will be the besan.

Giving it be: A set of ayu order to symbolize the sincere hope that salvation. A set of clothes for the bride, including some batik fabric that symbolizes happiness in life. Can not miss a stagen, cloth belts and long great white, as a sign of strength tekad.Beberapa produce al rice, sugar, salt, cooking oil, fruits etc. as pralambang adequacy and prosperous life for new families ..

A pair of wedding rings for the bride and groom.

On this occasion, the prospective groom's hand over a sum of money, as a donation to the ceremony perkawinan.Ini a mere formality, because urunan money is given in advance.

After dining together and become acquainted, the whole family group of parents said goodbye to the man bride home. They need to prepare for tomorrow is an important implementation of a marriage ceremony includes religious wedding, etc. The traditional ceremony gathering manten.

Note: According to the custom of marriage Surakarta, as a farewell party home, host parties provide angsul-angsulan, in the form of fruits, pastries and a set of men's clothes that the bride will wear tomorrow. In customary marriage Yogyakarta style, no-angsulan angsul.